Dont let them hold you down!!!!

This goes out to my oppressed blogger friend. I feel so awful for you and the fact that people have used your personal feelings and things that go on in your life against you. The fact that your job (male jerk supervisors) forced you to delete your blog because it was obscene is absurd. Nothing in your blog was bad, degrading, or possibly embarrassing to your place of business. I just think it is ridiculous that they read each and every one of your posts and criticized, and practically belittled you because of them. I enjoyed reading your posts daily and hope that you do not give up blogging forever. The fact that you deleted it is sad and I hope that you decide to start a new one soon. Poo on them!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! Hang in there sista!!!

I am so excited because this weekend I am attending a mom's conference. It will be sad to leave my baby girl and my husband but it shoul be a good time. Going away with the girls, sleeping in a hotel, going to seminars about mommy and marriage related stuff. Good times.

Last night I sat my husband down and had a talk with him. It was a lighthearted productive talk. I felt very good at the end. As I sat in Cognitive and Behavioral therapy class last night and had no interest in watching the film I made a list of all of the things in my head that I had to remember to do or wanted to get done. In ten minutes I had created a list of 30 things. At that moment I had an epiphany. I realized that part of the reason I feel like a runaway train many times is because I have 30 things at any given moment going through my head. Things from needing to make a phone call to planning a weekend vacation. It felt so good to get them on paper and clear my head a bit. I realized the other issue is that I give none of this burden to my husband which in turn hinders him from being the leader of the family that he needs to be. So I sat him down and explained the list and how I wanted him to look at it and see if there was any of those things he would be willing to take care of or at least remind me to do. He was totally understanding and it seemed like he actually appreciated the fact that I was filling him in and pinpointing ways to take on the leadership role better. It was just an all round good discussion. I took the list and put it on the fridge and have already crossed off 3 items. Now I have like two more already to add to it but it seems to be helping me tremendously in the few hours that I have had it. Wives....I recommend trying it. It will take some of the burden of our natural multitasking and taking on the world off of your shoulders and at least put it on paper so that way it is not an issue of trying to remember everything. I feel like I may be more productive because of it.

I think that is plenty for today. I would say to look for a post tomorrow but the reality is that it will likely be another week. If not then great but what I am saying is don't expect an update right away my loyal fans. Okay bye.